Showing posts with label Wedding Wednesday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Wedding Wednesday. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Wedding Wednesday (November 6, 2013) -- The Hasselbaum/Henry Marriage

Mary Hasselbaum and John E. Henry, M.D., bride and groom posing with the bride's family (circa 1913)

My paternal grandmother, Huldah Antonia Hasselbaum Tew, was one of the six children of Anton Hasselbaum and his wife, Maria Johanne Richter. Around 1913, my grandmother's older sister (the eldest of the six Hasselbaum children) married John E. Henry, M.D. in Providence, Rhode Island.  All the members of the Anton and Maria Hasselbaum family were present except for their only son Oscar, who was in the Army and could not get leave to attend the wedding.

From left to right above are: Helena Hasselbaum (1901 - 1982); Olga Hasselbaum (1896 -     ); the bride, Mary Hasselbaum Henry (1888 - 1914); the bride's mother, Maria Johanne Richter Hasselbaum (1859 - 1948); the groom, John E. Henry, M.D.; the bride's father, Anton Hasselbaum (1857 - 1916); and the twins, Josephine Hasselbaum (1898 - 1990), standing, and my grandmother, Huldah Hasselbaum (1898 - 1983) sitting.

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Photograph in the collection of the author. 
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Copyright 2013, John D. Tew
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Wednesday, October 16, 2013

A Marriage Service Book -- Wedding Wednesday (October 16, 2013)



Yesterday was the 117th anniversary of the birth of my paternal grandfather, Arnold G. Tew, Sr. He was born in Central Falls, Rhode Island on October 15, 1896 to John Andrew Tew and his wife, Margaret "Maggie" (Conner) Tew.  My grandfather was the fourth of their five children and he was the only one of four sons to survive beyond age two.

Ninety-two years ago my grandfather married my grandmother, Huldah Antonia Hasselbaum.  As a record of their marriage they were presented with a "Marriage Service" book.  The book was the creation of the Rev. Salem D. Towne who copyrighted his book in 1900.  The book consists of sixteen pages, which are depicted below.

Salem Darius Towne was born in Clarksburg, Massachusetts on May 9, 1857, the son of Abner F. Towne and his wife Amanda.  He grew up in Williamstown, Massachusetts and Bennington, Vermont.  In 1882 he moved to Bangor, Maine where he attended the Theological Seminary and graduated in 1885.  He served in several churches including the Congregational Churches in Ellsworth, Maine,  Hampden, Maine, and Oldtown, Maine.  In 1889 he founded a religious paper called The Word and the Work and was both editor and publisher until October, 1890.  In 1885 he published a booklet called the "Wedding Souvenir," which became so popular it went through five editions by 1901.  Rev. Towne authored several other publications for ministers that also met with wide acceptance and so eventually he turned all of his attention to his publications, which were issued by the Ingraham Printing and Publishing Company of Williamstown, Massachusetts.









The portrait photograph at the end of the Marriage Service book is of Rev. Marion Bratcher of the Calvary Baptist Church, Providence, Rhode Island.  Rev. Bratcher performed the wedding ceremony for my grandparents.

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Scanned images of the Marriage Service book from the original in the collection of the author. 

Biographical information about the Rev. Salem Darius Towne from "The Descendants of William Towne: Who Came to America on Or About 1630 and Settled in Salem, Mass." compiled by Edwin Eugene Towne (Newtonville, Mass. Published by the Author, 1901),  p. 210 - 211
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Copyright 2013, John D. Tew
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Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Wedding Wednesday (September 18, 2013) -- Whence The White Wedding Dress?


The photograph above is of my paternal grandparents on their wedding day -- July 21, 1921. My grandmother had an annoying habit of writing across the front of photographs, but this one is thankfully in the margin and, as always with my grandmother's annotations, does provide appreciated written information -- such as the location of the church where the marriage took place and the role if not the names of the other two people in the picture.  My grandparents, Arnold G. Tew, Sr. and his bride, Huldah A. Hasselbaum, are the couple in the center.

I previously posted a wedding photograph of my grandparents on their wedding day here .  I was struck then, as I am even more with this bridal party photograph, with the absence of color in the wedding garb.  All the participants -- including the bride -- are dressed in black and but for the flowers and the white gloves, one might think the folks were in mourning and the photograph was taken at a funeral.

A little bit of research reveals that white has not always been the traditional and popular color for the bride's gown.  In fact, in some cultures and times the color of mourning was white and not black.  For example, in medieval Europe through the late 1400s white was a mourning color and in Hindu culture white is still the color of mourning.

For those who thought (as I did) that white was the color for the bride to represent purity and virginity, it will come as some surprise that the ancient color of virginity and purity is actually blue! To see some evidence for this, Google images for the Virgin Mary and look at how often and prominently the color blue is used in depictions of Mary.

It is generally accepted that in Western European cultures the tradition for white as the color of the bride's dress began when Queen Victoria wore a gown of white at her wedding to Prince Albert in 1840 because she had a thing for white lace.  Before that time red was an especially popular color for a wedding dress in Western Europe.  When news and pictures of Queen Victoria's white gown spread, the affluent and the elite adopted the white wedding gown and it was thought that part of this phenomenon was the ability to showcase that the bride was so well off that she could afford to choose an expensive dress in a color that could easily be ruined by an accidental spill or any exuberant exertion on the part of the bride.  As Wikipedia says, 

By the end of the 19th century the white dress was the garment of choice for elite brides on both sides of the Atlantic. However, middle-class British and American brides did not adopt the trend fully until after World War II. With increased prosperity in the 20th century, the tradition also grew to include the practice of wearing the dress only once.

So, it was not at all unusual or symbolic in any way that my grandmother did not wear a white gown or dress for her wedding in 1921.  
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Image of the bridal party from a photograph in the collection of the author.  

For more information about the history of white as the color of a bride's wedding dress see,  http://www.onewed.com/workbook/article/history-of-the-white-wedding-dress and http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_wedding
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Copyright 2013, John D. Tew
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Wednesday, September 4, 2013

Wedding Wednesday (September 4, 2013) -- Edna Lillian Tew and Edward Clifford Tarr



My paternal grandfather's older sister,  Edna Lillian Tew (my grand aunt), married Edward Clifford ("Cliff") Tarr on Wednesday, June 1, 1910 in Providence, Rhode Island.  On her wedding day, Edna was 24 years old and just a few weeks away from her 25th birthday.  Cliff was 26 years old.

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Scanned image in the collection of the author.  The scan is from an original announcement in the possession of Edna and Cliff's grandson, my cousin Bruce. 
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Copyright 2013, John D. Tew
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Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Wedding Wednesday (August 21, 2013) -- A History Of Marriages

Since today is the 37th wedding anniversary for Molly and me -- and it is a Wednesday so that a Wedding Wednesday contribution is appropriate -- I thought I would recognize the occasion here by posting a history of the marriages in the Tew and Carpenter families over some eight generations. 

My parents celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary in 2011 and as part of the celebration I created a slide show and included a slide and a hard-copy handout that listed the marriages of seven prior generations in each of their respective ancestral lines.  Here it is. . . 



HAPPY ANNIVERSARY MOLLY!! 

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Marriage history created by the author (2011). 
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Copyright 2013, John D. Tew
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Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Wedding Wednesday (July 17, 2013)

1851 marriage certificate for Mason Freeman and Martha A. Shearman

My 2x great grandparents, Mason Freeman and Martha Amanda Shearman, were married on July 27, 1851 in  Smithfield, Rhode Island by Warren Lincoln, Minister of the Gospel, as shown on the above certificate of holy matrimony.

Mason was born on June 14, 1820 in Massachusetts and died in Lonsdale, Rhode Island on April 10, 1898.

Mason Freeman (1820 - 1898)

Martha was born on July 10, 1830 and died on August 28, 1870.

Martha Amanda Sherman (1830 - 1870)

Mason and Martha had at least five children:  Ellen Frances Freeman (1852 - 1947); Edward Mason Freeman (1854 -    ); Sarah Etta Freeman (1858 - 1945), my great grandmother; Caleb Everett Freeman (1862 -    ); and Otis Mason Freeman (1868 - 1949).

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Scanned images of the original certificate and photographs in the collection of the author.

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Copyright 2013, John D. Tew
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Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Wedding Wednesday (June 18, 2013) -- Samuel Eber Carpenter and Sarah Etta Freeman

Wedding announcement for my great grandparents (1887)

My great grandparents, Samuel Eber Carpenter (1853 - 1929) and Sarah Etta Freeman (1858 - 1945), were married on Wednesday, June 15, 1887 in Cumberland, Rhode Island.  Apparently they then went on a 16-day honeymoon to a location unknown.  Their wedding announcement (shown above) states that they would be "At Home" after July 1st, in Albion, Rhode Island.

Sam and Sarah had two children:  Ruth Ann Carpenter (1889 - 1920) and Everett Shearman Carpenter (1891 - 1962), my grandfather.

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Scan of Samuel and Sarah's wedding announcement from the personal collection of the author.
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Copyright 2013, John D. Tew
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Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Wedding Wednesday (May 22, 2013)

Arnold G. Tew, Sr. and Huldah Antonia Hasselbaum
on their wedding day -- July 16, 1921

My paternal grandparents, Arnold and Huldah Tew, were married at Calgary Baptist Church in Providence, Rhode Island on Saturday, July 16, 1921 by M.E. Bratcher, Minister of the Gospel.
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Photograph in the personal collection of the author
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Copyright 2013,  John D. Tew
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